{"id":12951,"date":"2022-03-22T02:30:01","date_gmt":"2022-03-22T02:30:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.rhesusnegative.net\/staynegative\/?p=12951"},"modified":"2022-03-22T02:30:09","modified_gmt":"2022-03-22T02:30:09","slug":"what-is-the-harshest-truth-youve-learned","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.rhesusnegative.net\/staynegative\/what-is-the-harshest-truth-youve-learned\/","title":{"rendered":"What is the harshest truth you&#8217;ve learned?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"padding-bottom:20px; padding-top:10px;\" class=\"hupso-share-buttons\"><!-- Hupso Share Buttons - https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/ --><a class=\"hupso_toolbar\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/share-medium.png?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" style=\"border:0px; padding-top:5px; float:left;\" alt=\"Share Button\"\/><\/a><script type=\"text\/javascript\">var hupso_services_t=new Array(\"Twitter\",\"Facebook\",\"Pinterest\",\"Linkedin\");var hupso_background_t=\"#EAF4FF\";var hupso_border_t=\"#66CCFF\";var hupso_toolbar_size_t=\"medium\";var hupso_twitter_via = \"datebytype\";var hupso_image_folder_url = \"\";var hupso_twitter_via=\"datebytype\";var hupso_url_t=\"\";var hupso_title_t=\"What is the harshest truth you&#039;ve learned?\";<\/script><script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/js\/share_toolbar.js\"><\/script><!-- Hupso Share Buttons --><\/div>\n<p>Once in a while I visit Quora.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you do as well, you are welcome to join our Space:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/rhnegative.quora.com\/\">https:\/\/rhnegative.quora.com\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here is a recent highlight from the replies to the question in the title:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p> You are most likely never going to be fully understood, even by those who you thought really knew you.<br>When the ones you love the most betray you, you cannot go to them for comfort because they are the ones who did it to you. You are alone.<br>More people resent you and have contempt for you than you could imagine.<br>The left will never accomplish anything because organizing its members is like herding cats.<br>The inverse reason is why the right is always so effective.<br>Few people are actually capable of love. For most, it is a contract of convenience.<br>The ability to listen, openly, without judgment, is the most powerful skill in the universe for creating peace.<br>Few can do #7, so war will always be with us.<br>You can assert your rights all day long, but unless you have the leverage to back it up, you have already lost.<br>Maybe you\u2019re the bad guy. Me too <\/p><cite><a href=\"https:\/\/www.quora.com\/What-is-the-harshest-truth-youve-learned\/answer\/Alexander-Finnegan?ch=10&amp;oid=343910577&amp;share=a19db720&amp;srid=XN4o&amp;target_type=answer\">https:\/\/www.quora.com\/What-is-the-harshest-truth-youve-learned\/answer\/Alexander-Finnegan?ch=10&amp;oid=343910577&amp;share=a19db720&amp;srid=XN4o&amp;target_type=answer<\/a><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>What are your thoughts?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>See also:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-wordpress wp-block-embed is-type-wp-embed is-provider-rh-negative-blood-and-people\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"KZlretFZip\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rhesusnegative.net\/staynegative\/do-you-want-to-save-the-world\/\">Do you want to save the world?<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" style=\"position: absolute; clip: rect(1px, 1px, 1px, 1px);\" title=\"&#8220;Do you want to save the world?&#8221; &#8212; The Rh Negative Blog\" src=\"https:\/\/www.rhesusnegative.net\/staynegative\/do-you-want-to-save-the-world\/embed\/#?secret=ZhEtgA3cIH#?secret=KZlretFZip\" data-secret=\"KZlretFZip\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n<div style=\"padding-bottom:20px; padding-top:10px;\" class=\"hupso-share-buttons\"><!-- Hupso Share Buttons - https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/ --><a class=\"hupso_toolbar\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/share-medium.png?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" style=\"border:0px; padding-top:5px; float:left;\" alt=\"Share Button\"\/><\/a><script type=\"text\/javascript\">var hupso_services_t=new Array(\"Twitter\",\"Facebook\",\"Pinterest\",\"Linkedin\");var hupso_background_t=\"#EAF4FF\";var hupso_border_t=\"#66CCFF\";var hupso_toolbar_size_t=\"medium\";var hupso_twitter_via = \"datebytype\";var hupso_image_folder_url = \"\";var hupso_twitter_via=\"datebytype\";var hupso_url_t=\"\";var hupso_title_t=\"What is the harshest truth you&#039;ve learned?\";<\/script><script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/js\/share_toolbar.js\"><\/script><!-- Hupso Share Buttons --><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div style=\"padding-bottom:20px; padding-top:10px;\" class=\"hupso-share-buttons\"><!-- Hupso Share Buttons - https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/ --><a class=\"hupso_toolbar\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/\"><img src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/share-medium.png\" style=\"border:0px; padding-top:5px; float:left;\" alt=\"Share Button\"\/><\/a><script type=\"text\/javascript\">var hupso_services_t=new Array(\"Twitter\",\"Facebook\",\"Pinterest\",\"Linkedin\");var hupso_background_t=\"#EAF4FF\";var hupso_border_t=\"#66CCFF\";var hupso_toolbar_size_t=\"medium\";var hupso_twitter_via = \"datebytype\";var hupso_image_folder_url = \"\";var hupso_twitter_via=\"datebytype\";var hupso_url_t=\"\";var hupso_title_t=\"What is the harshest truth you&#039;ve learned?\";<\/script><script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/js\/share_toolbar.js\"><\/script><!-- Hupso Share Buttons --><\/div>Once in a while I visit Quora. If you do as well, you are welcome to join our Space: https:\/\/rhnegative.quora.com\/ Here is a recent highlight from the replies to the question in the title: You are most likely never going to be fully understood, even by those who you thought really knew you.When the ones you love the most betray you, you cannot go to them for comfort because they are the ones who did it to you. 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