{"id":14996,"date":"2022-08-03T06:07:04","date_gmt":"2022-08-03T06:07:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.rhesusnegative.net\/staynegative\/?p=14996"},"modified":"2022-08-03T06:07:09","modified_gmt":"2022-08-03T06:07:09","slug":"does-fake-empathy-hurt-your-intuitive-rh-negative-spirit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.rhesusnegative.net\/staynegative\/does-fake-empathy-hurt-your-intuitive-rh-negative-spirit\/","title":{"rendered":"Does fake empathy hurt your intuitive Rh negative spirit?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"padding-bottom:20px; padding-top:10px;\" class=\"hupso-share-buttons\"><!-- Hupso Share Buttons - https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/ --><a class=\"hupso_toolbar\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/share-medium.png?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" style=\"border:0px; padding-top:5px; float:left;\" alt=\"Share Button\"\/><\/a><script type=\"text\/javascript\">var hupso_services_t=new Array(\"Twitter\",\"Facebook\",\"Pinterest\",\"Linkedin\");var hupso_background_t=\"#EAF4FF\";var hupso_border_t=\"#66CCFF\";var hupso_toolbar_size_t=\"medium\";var hupso_twitter_via = \"datebytype\";var hupso_image_folder_url = \"\";var hupso_twitter_via=\"datebytype\";var hupso_url_t=\"\";var hupso_title_t=\"Does fake empathy hurt your intuitive Rh negative spirit?\";<\/script><script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/js\/share_toolbar.js\"><\/script><!-- Hupso Share Buttons --><\/div>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube aligncenter wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio wp-embed-aspect-16-9\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Were you raised to be fake?\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/H3DHkWs6xdI?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>People are used to hearing fake empathy, so when you are being real, you might get labeled as autistic or having Asperger&#8217;s. And if you claim to have either, there are those who will argue that you being okay with it is disrespectful towards those suffering from it. And so on&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I witnessed this earlier hearing about someone passing and feeling I should say more. Someone I knew distantly. I remembered what was significant and mentioned it. I didn&#8217;t go into &#8220;I am so sorry to hear it&#8221; etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I felt obligated and when I feel obligated, I tend to just withdraw.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Empathy is based on how something truly hits you. Not how you react to it in the eyes of the audience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So if you are told you might have Asperger&#8217;s because you&#8217;re not the only one saying &#8220;I am so sorry you had to go through this&#8221; when someone reveals something from their past, maintain your balance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your emotions will allow you to express what you wish to with those who have true empathy&#8230; not including those who are &#8220;known for their empathy&#8221; based on nothing else than what they say it, how much energy they force behind their words and how loud they express it to overshadow the other &#8220;mourners&#8221; in the room.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That is my opinion and my opinion only and I hope I have clarified how I came to it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-wordpress aligncenter wp-block-embed is-type-wp-embed is-provider-rh-negative-blood-and-people\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"B3wUuXQTCK\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rhesusnegative.net\/staynegative\/what-is-and-what-isnt-empathy\/\">What is and what isn&#8217;t Empathy?<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" style=\"position: absolute; clip: rect(1px, 1px, 1px, 1px);\" title=\"&#8220;What is and what isn&#8217;t Empathy?&#8221; &#8212; The Rh Negative Blog\" src=\"https:\/\/www.rhesusnegative.net\/staynegative\/what-is-and-what-isnt-empathy\/embed\/#?secret=R4UWIzVXgu#?secret=B3wUuXQTCK\" data-secret=\"B3wUuXQTCK\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n<div style=\"padding-bottom:20px; padding-top:10px;\" class=\"hupso-share-buttons\"><!-- Hupso Share Buttons - https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/ --><a class=\"hupso_toolbar\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/share-medium.png?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" style=\"border:0px; padding-top:5px; float:left;\" alt=\"Share Button\"\/><\/a><script type=\"text\/javascript\">var hupso_services_t=new Array(\"Twitter\",\"Facebook\",\"Pinterest\",\"Linkedin\");var hupso_background_t=\"#EAF4FF\";var hupso_border_t=\"#66CCFF\";var hupso_toolbar_size_t=\"medium\";var hupso_twitter_via = \"datebytype\";var hupso_image_folder_url = \"\";var hupso_twitter_via=\"datebytype\";var hupso_url_t=\"\";var hupso_title_t=\"Does fake empathy hurt your intuitive Rh negative spirit?\";<\/script><script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/js\/share_toolbar.js\"><\/script><!-- Hupso Share Buttons --><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div style=\"padding-bottom:20px; padding-top:10px;\" class=\"hupso-share-buttons\"><!-- Hupso Share Buttons - https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/ --><a class=\"hupso_toolbar\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/\"><img src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/share-medium.png\" style=\"border:0px; padding-top:5px; float:left;\" alt=\"Share Button\"\/><\/a><script type=\"text\/javascript\">var hupso_services_t=new Array(\"Twitter\",\"Facebook\",\"Pinterest\",\"Linkedin\");var hupso_background_t=\"#EAF4FF\";var hupso_border_t=\"#66CCFF\";var hupso_toolbar_size_t=\"medium\";var hupso_twitter_via = \"datebytype\";var hupso_image_folder_url = \"\";var hupso_twitter_via=\"datebytype\";var hupso_url_t=\"\";var hupso_title_t=\"Does fake empathy hurt your intuitive Rh negative spirit?\";<\/script><script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/js\/share_toolbar.js\"><\/script><!-- Hupso Share Buttons --><\/div>People are used to hearing fake empathy, so when you are being real, you might get labeled as autistic or having Asperger&#8217;s. 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